Gentleman's Gift Guide

For the art of giving, 7 of my best gift giving tips:

Know your partner's taste:

My first tip for gentlemen looking to surprise their partner is know your partner's taste. What is her style? Does she wear or already use similar items in the same style you want to surprise her with? Find out or perhaps ask a friend to check discreetly.

Know your partner's size:

Another great tip is; know her size, check her clothing size for dress, lingerie, bra and brief and be sure to pick an item that she wears regularly. For bras; pick a relatively new item out of her lingerie wardrobe, bras can stretch out after some time and no longer be her accurate size. FYI, when an item is super stretchy it may not represent her actual size. Too difficult? A one size fits most piece is an easier pick when it comes to sizing. Explore the luxury lingerie collection with a few of the most iconic designs in the world.

Invest in pleasure:

When pleasure is on your mind and you would love give her something for the boudoir. Make sure that she wants to be surprised with such a provocative gift. And good to know: geisha balls are a delightful asset for play when you are not that comfortable with a toy in the boudoir. Or browse our curated collection of high class, exclusive pleasures for some boudoir inspiration.

Jewelry is a girl's best friend:

When your lady appreciates the finer things in life and loves both jewelry and play-time together you cannot go wrong with the Xenses selection of fine jewelry designs. From sensuous body jewelry to dual function boudoir jewelry pieces that are statement jewelry designs by day and sacred pleasure tools by night. Only initiates will know their secret. Discover our high end collection of boudoir jewelry.


This is a subject that you should discuss first and take step by step. When you have: some of the unique designer bondage accessories are perfect for beginners and light bondage play like the sultry Darkest Star silk bondage scarfs. For more adventurous ideas, explore our luxury bondage collection.

Personal gift message:

Nothing makes a gift more personal than your gift message. It does not have to be long, just from the heart and even an 'I Love You' is always a good one. Use little nicknames you may have for each other. Leave your message at the cart and I will add it on a hand written card to your gift.

Gift wrapping:

Finally something you do not have to worry about. I always personally gift wrap each order in one of our black & gold signature Xenses gift boxes, or glossy black wrapping paper with black & gold satin ribbon if the gift does not fit inside one of the gift boxes.

After reading these tips I am sure your gift will be the best ever and will leave your lady speechless, perhaps even breathless. If you need more assistance just contact me via the contact page, I am happy to assist.

Madame Isabella